Tuesday, August 31, 2010

Poem

Everyday

Everyday I feel falling inlove
Everyday you make me smile
Everyday you are on my mind
Because everyday you complete me.

Everyday you uplift me
Everyday you inspire me
Everyday you adore me
Because my everyday revolves around you.

Everyday you make me shy
Everyday you make me sad
Everyday you make me cry
Because its not me beside you when I see you "SMILE".

Thursday, August 26, 2010

First Love



I remember the time when I have my first love. I don't know what I'm going to do when I came at that relationship because that is my first time to fall in love with someone. I ask my friends who had an expirience in a relationship when I have a problem to my first love and all of my friends help me and gave me an advice about my problem. In the beginning it is hard to me in handling a relationship. That time all I know in a relationship is having so much time to your love one or giving them more attention than to your friends which I realized is wrong thing I do.

I remember where it starts of my first love. it begins when we are friend. I met him first in my school when I was Third year high school. He is in Senior level and I am in Junior level. He is my crush in our school. After we met each other we became friend, then became a best friend after a week. We are so close to each other, he is always at my side when I was a problem. After a few weeks, I and him are act of paying attention in short we are in the courtship stage.

When we are in a courtship stage we are so sweet to each other. Every lunch break in our school he is always at me. When I am sad he makes me happy. He makes me smile every time we are in together.  Everyday he makes me happy, I feel falling in love with him. That time I ask myself, "It is the right time to be with him?" I think a lot of time for that question. Many days has come but I can't answer that question. Every time we met at school he ask me "What?" it means what stage we are. I didn't answer him. Because I don't know what I'm going to answer. Because my brain and my heart was fighting about that. And he said at me "I'm still waiting."

With the help of his friends, they planned about our first date. I didn't expect that he can do that for me. I didn't expect that he is so romantic. He gave me some flowers and chocolates. And every flower he gave has a meaning why he loves mo. And that time I gave him a big yes answer to his repeatedly question. I and him became happy that day.

After a few weeks, my parents askme if I had a boyfriend. But I answer them a lie, because if I tell them the truth they will become mad at me and maybe they will do to stop me at my study. My parent is super strick about love life talk. All they want at me is to pay attention first my study before I face the love life. My friends bacome mad at me because I don't have a time for them but to my boy friend that time I have a lot of time. When my friends are gone I feel alone because my friends is my strength every time I had a problem, they giveme a good advice. I feel down that time. In a few day I go to my friends and tell them, "I'm sorry for what I have done before." And I maked a promise at them I will be with them at all times because friends is most important at me than to my boy friend. After a month I tell to my boy friend that I want a break up because I don't have a time to my friends and sometimes my attention in studying will gone. And he is  understand me and he make me set free.

 The importance of loving someone isto share your love to others and to share what you had in life. Showing some love is not only to your love one. Show your love to evry one is the most important inloving.

Many people say that first love never dies, I agree for that sayings, but true love can bury it alive.

Tuesday, August 24, 2010

True Love





What is true love? How can you say that you love someone else? Base to my research, Love is emotion explored in philosophy, religion, and literature, often as either romantic love, the fraternal love of others, or the love of god. You can say that you love someone if you don't want to live it and you want she/he is always their in your side.

Many people say that love is blind. They say that love is blind because they don't see what is the real love because many of them was ignore the people who love them. For me, love is not blind it sees all but it doesn't mind. Don't focus yourself to only one person who doesn't love you. Open your heart and find another one who is more that to him/her and who will love you with all of his/her heart.

We have a  many kinds of love.Ideally, we find Romantic love between one man and one woman. We write poetry about it. It may end beautifully or tragically. We get to know each other in order to form a lasting and mutual relationship. We can find an example of a romantic love in marriages that last even into old age. Most marriages start out with romantic love, but only the strongest are those that last. Successful marriages developed into quite a different kind of love.
Lustful love usually ends up hurting someone. It’s the one mentioned in the Bible with David and Bathsheba. David sent Uriah into full account of the battle so he would die. Lustful love is the kind that ruins lives and reputations. We find it in adultery and fornication. It cares only about sex. Now I do not want to hurt anyone. I just want to expose a very dangerous happening that we falsely called love.
Selfish love cannot be legitimate, unless it comes from the Almighty. People are not perfect enough for it and so we cannot demand it. God insists on it for Himself. He wants our whole devotion so we can live a high-quality life. You see He wants the best for us. The Bible is about His selfish love, and only He can require it. There is nothing greater than this love. If we give unselfish love to Him, we will live as Christ lived. This is probably beyond our abilities. That is why Christ died for our sins.
Friendship love is a caring love. Ideally, we find it everywhere. Found in all peaceful relationships. We find it between all kinds of people and even between people and animals. It is a special love that has no demands or conditions. We all should form one with each other. It is what Jonathan had for David, while Saul was trying to kill David in a jealous rage. We find it in the commandments and in the second greatest commandment ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ (Found in Matthew 22:37-40.)
Smothering love is the kind that demands constant attention. One will not let another have a life. We see it when one person wants to tie him self or her self to another human being and will not let them out of their sight. It seems like harassment. It comes from a very needy person, one who has not resolved issues, especially childhood abandonment and neglect. These people need professional help and prayer. Be kind but firm with them. Abuse only makes this kind of love worse. These persons have already suffered too much. Smothering love is not hopeless if the person can accept Biblical instruction and/or proper professional help.
Tough love is a love needed to bring up a child into a psychologically healthy adult. It lets child learn from his or her mistakes, and they have us as shoulders to lean on and to give them support. It is an unconditional love. It is the kind of love given by the Almighty, when we mess up. We find it in the New Testament. Jesus showed us this love by example.
Childish love is what children have for their parents. It is a needy love, but we cannot compare it with smothering love. Childish love can become independent and strong. Strength lives there that we cannot find in the other. It only needs awakened and developed through example, nurturing, and instruction, and as the child matures, he or she develops an unconditional love for others.
Unrequited love was what Christ had when He died for our sins. We find it in some broken marriages, the prodigal son or daughter, and in one-way friendship. It, like lustful love, is hurtful. Only here, we see a victim, the one who offers unconditional love and does not receive it.
Popularity love is gained with the promise that with associating with that person, you will profit. We call them fair weather friends. He or she soon disappears when life has given the love one a few hardships. Peter had this kind of love, when he denied Christ three times. Thankfully, he overcame it and developed agape love. If he had not, we would not be reading first and second Peter in the New Testament.
Godly love is a perfect love. It is the love that is willing to go so far as to give up ones' life for another. Very few people can attain such love. It is all that is good in all the other loves. Most of the disciples attained it. Others have attained it, but only God knows who all of them are.
Now, you are probably wondering who I am. Am I qualified to write about such a subject as love? I have lived a long life, worked thirty years, was a teacher and now I am a retired one. I am a sister, a wife, a friend, and a daughter. I grew up with parents whose parents abused and neglected them. Their homes became battlegrounds. Their parents passed them off to different children's homes, brought them back when they were old enough to work. The children either ran away or were locked out of their homes. I observed the result of these various kinds of love first hand in my parents’ lives and in the lives of some of the children that I have taught. I have also studied God’s love and have seen it demonstrated within religious organizations. Some split or destroy their reputation by ruining the lives of the innocent and by causing heartache and discouragement. However, some do demonstrate Godly love, by building up, bringing growth and peace, and by encouraging their members to live agape love.


"What is true love?" I ask myself, but i can't answer myself about that. Then I ask my friend, and my friend answer me, "The true love is when you shed a tear and still want him. It's when he ignores you and you still love him, It's when he love another but you still smile and say " I'm happy for you" but deep in side you get hurt." Then I ash her again, "Why can't true love is when he doesn't hurt me when I hurt him, his silent even when I'm screaming, he will think clearly even if he is confused and will not let go when I release him?" And she will not answer my question because they don't know the right definition of true love. until now I don't know the right definition of true love all I know is to make some love to others.


When having a true love you will make a hard decision or sacrifice what you have in life. When I have a love one it makes me challenge in choosing what I want. Sometimes they ask me between him and my friends. It's hard for me in choosing. I choose him because all I know that he is my true love. And my friends became mad at me. Sometimes I don't have enough of  time to my family because of him. love is really sacrifice, because all my important at me has gone because of love. When the time has come I open my mind and I realized what I've done. And that time I will going to breaking up with him.

Making a decision that time is very hard for me. Sometimes I had a mistakes in choosing what is the right thing to do. But every mistakes I've made it has a moral lesson. And every mistakes I made, make me think, make me realize what I've had, what I've lost, what I've taken for granted they make me realized that sometimes there are no next times, no time-outs, and no second chances. This is the lesson I've learned.

Friday, August 20, 2010

Computervs. Typewriter






What is the difference between computer and typewriter and there importance to the user? I used typewriter before I have a computer, and after that I ask myself, "What is the difference between computer and typewriter?" And I'd make a research for that, I ask my mother, my father, cousin, neighbors, and friends. Many of them say that computer and typewriter has many differences. And after asking somebody I'd open my computer and make some research because I will not satisfied to their answers.

What is the computer can do? I'd make a research for that question, and computer answer me. The computer is a machine that performs tasks, such as calculations or electronic communication, under the control of a set of instructions called a program. Programs usually reside within the computer and are retrieved and processed by the computer electronics. The program results are stored or routed to output devices, such as video display monitors or printers. Computer perform a wide variety of activities reliably, accurately and quickly.

What is the typewriter can do? This is the next question I'd research. The typewriter is the a machine designed to print or impress type characters on paper, as a speedier and more legible substitute for handwriting. Since the introduction of practical typewriters in 1870's, the machines have come into universal use and have played an important part in the development of modern business and in the great dissemination of written and printed information that has characterized the 20th century.

The computer has many uses. People used computers in many ways. In business, computer track inventories with bar codes and scanners, check the credit status of customers, and transfer funds electronically. In home, we used tiny computers embedded in the electronic circuitry of the most appliances control the indoor temperature, operate home security systems,tell the time, and turn videocassette recorders on and off. Computers are used extensively in scientific research to solve mathematical problems, investigate complicates data, or model systems that are too costly or impractical to build, such as testing the air flow around the next generation of aircraft.

The typewriter was exactly like a keyboard you could type on it and type stories or and thing and as you was typing you would have a paper coming out of the top like it was being printed so its like a computer but without a screen.

Now a days, many people can used a computer to do work for their business, home, and school. Computer is a machine of the future. People will used computers more than the typewriter in the office, school and at home. One of the main reasons is a computer has more features than a typewriter. A typewriter is very limited in its use, for example, you have to used correction fluid every time you make a mistakes. There is the advantages of Manual typewriters being more mobile, but are often bulkier and heavier than electric or electronic typewriters. Computer process was work faster than typewriters on mass of products.,

Tuesday, August 17, 2010

Computer Games: Effect to the Teenager Now-a-Days






What is computer do? The computer is the machine that performs task, such as calculations o electronic communication. Computers perform a wide variety of activities reliably, accurately, and quickly. It help us to become easier our computation. But most of the teenager now-a-days didn’t know he proper uses of computer. Some of the teenager now is know about computer games only. Most of them didn’t know the proper uses of the application of computer.

As a teenager and student I observed that many of my co-student is always absent or sometimes late or they cut their classes because of computer gaming. They lack their attention for studying. They don’t know the real importance of computer in studying. There wasting his time for nothing. The proper use of a computer in studying is to make a research to your homework, and to learn or explore your idea in computer by the used of internet.

Money is the most important to our lies. Without money we can’t buy foods, without money we can’t buy the important thing we need in our selves. But some of us don’t know the importance of money. There wasting his money for not important things like renting a computer in computer shop for playing games.

As a teenager, I have responsibilities to my family, studying, and to my fiends. Having a responsibilities to my family I will o my duties at home, just like in school and to my friends too. But some of the teenager right now was forgetting there responsibilities because of there focus to the computer games.

I observed that because of friends you will make a good or bad thing to do. You will picked to the bad influence friends is making a wrong way to your life, like hacking a money to your parent for renting a computer to computer shop because you want to play a games to computer. So find friends that make you go in right way in life.

I observed that the cause of the addiction of the teenager to the computer games is there friend’s that all they know about is playing a computer games only.

The effect of all day playing a game in computer to the child is her eye sight become poorer because of the ultra violet of the monitor. And sometimes the child is always mad because they don’t get what he wants.